The English idiom "don't judge a book by its cover" means
"never prejudge the worth or value of something, by its outward appearance
alone". We usually tend to buy books based on their covers and that is why
efforts are taken by the publishers to see that the covers are attractive. The
situation is not much different when it comes to judging people. In our day to
day life we judge people we meet based on their appearance. While their outward
appearance and the way they carry themselves does matter, it should not become
the sole way to judge them. We hear many adults look at troubled kids and say “some
people are just doomed to be failures”. We live in such a superficial
society where even books are judged based on their covers. It is very easy to
fall into the trap of looking only at the surface of people, things, and ideas
without taking the time and effort to delve deeper into them. This is where the
adage "Don't Judge a Book by Its Cover" comes from. Literally, you
cannot tell the quality of the contents of a book just by looking at the
material used to hold it together. A book with a plain cover and simple title
may be more important, more entertaining, or more useful than a book bound in a
flashier manner. We shouldn't form
an opinion on someone or something based purely on what we see on the surface,
because usually after taking a deeper look, the person or thing may not be what
we expected. A suitable example to illustrate this would be a duck paddling in
water. What we see on the surface is the duck moving on the water surface
smoothly. What we don’t see is the effort taken by the duck to keep itself
afloat – the actual paddling. So if you have been judging things looking at
their outward appearance, stop doing so and take the time and effort to
dig a little deeper. You never know what you might find.
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